PLEASE - don't ask me if I'm over it yet. I'll never be "over it."
PLEASE - don't tell me he’s in a better place. HE isn't here.
PLEASE - don't say "at least he isn't suffering". I haven't come to terms with why he had to suffer at all.
PLEASE - don't say "well, you're lucky...he would have been born with a lot of problems." Would you love your own child any less if they had been born with problems?
PLEASE - don't tell me you know how I feel unless you have lost a child.
PLEASE - don't tell me to get on with my life. I'm still here, you'll notice.
PLEASE - don't ask me if I feel better. Bereavement isn't a condition that "clears up."
PLEASE - don't tell me that "God never makes a mistake" or it was God's will." You mean he did this on purpose?
PLEASE - don't tell me "at least you had him for 3 days. Or, "at least you know you can get pregnant. "What year would you choose for your son to die?
PLEASE - don't tell me God never gives you more than you can bear. Who decides how much another person can bear?
PLEASE - Just say you are sorry.
PLEASE - Just say you remember him and our excitement if you do.
PLEASE - Just let me talk if I want to.
PLEA PLEASE - Just let me say his name without turning away or changing the subject.
PLEASE - let me cry when I must.